I once had to make that choice, I refused the non-Tunisian marriage but it was for different reasons, I didn't love him enough. Well, now, I don't care if he's tunisian or not... maybe 'cause I got enough of having to deal with tunisian guys? I'm not sure. Let's just say that I insist he's a muslim: I won't mind marrying a European if he's muslim. I think when we're in love, differences are not likely to cause much trouble. I'll just care to be with the man I'm in love with.
Esotric, you're right about the fact that we feel better when he belongs to our country. I agree with that but nobody knows..Maktub