Pity for love!!!

[Kajol]

Nowadays, we notice some kind of relationships very exagerated between girls and boys:They refuse to have a "clean" relation with girls, they require touches, then it becomes kisses, to get to ... Otherwise, they disappear if they met a girl who said no.They simply prove that boys nowadays have lost their feelings, nothing more important than instinct;
pity for love!!!
What do you think?

[Nemesis]

I think it is unfair to say that... not all the boys behave like a stray cat and not all the boys couldn't deal with a relationship with no sex.
when you truly, madly, deeply love someone, you are longing for him in every single way... psychic and physical... you need to touch him, you wish to kiss him and so on...
but boys restless and wanting nothing else than kisses and sex, I hope they'll be uncovered soon after you get to know them... they are not worth fighting for, I hope you'll never shed a tear for even one of them

[Caprice]

Envoyé par Nemesis

I think it is unfair to say that... not all the boys behave like a stray cat and not all the boys couldn't deal with a relationship with no sex.
when you truly, madly, deeply love someone, you are longing for him in every single way... psychic and physical... you need to touch him, you wish to kiss him and so on...
but boys restless and wanting nothing else than kisses and sex, I hope they'll be uncovered soon after you get to know them... they are not worth fighting for, I hope you'll never shed a tear for even one of them

I think Kajol is right. Guys are really kinda nuisance about touching, kissing, etc. I never knew a guy (specially in the frame of the couple, and often enough friends who wanted more) who didn't try that or at least hinted at it, so correct me if I'm wrong Nemesis, do we live in different planets?

I understand what you said about loving someone and longing to him/her in more ways than one, but what about self-control? What about taking care of the lady he pretends to love?

I'm sorry seems I really have to go out (it's urgent).

....to be continued

[Nemesis]

Envoyé par Caprice

I think Kajol is right. Guys are really kinda nuisance about touching, kissing, etc. I never knew a guy (specially in the frame of the couple, and often enough friends who wanted more) who didn't try that or at least hinted at it, so correct me if I'm wrong Nemesis, do we live in different planets?

I understand what you said about loving someone and longing to him/her in more ways than one, but what about self-control? What about taking care of the lady he pretends to love?

I'm sorry seems I really have to go out (it's urgent).

....to be continued

let us face it, but what kind of boys did you get to know?
I really don't like to lump together all the boys on the whole wide world. and I really knew guys who were not like that... normal guys before you think of them to be weird, decent guys and adorable one's.
I m sure that many boys, men, whatever want to be become physical as soon as possible. and so are some girls for sure.
but just like I said, don't lump them all together. that's just not fair and I don't like that... just what I said... not every boy behaves like a stray cat.
and what I wanted to express is quite simple.
when you love someone you're longing for him... and girls are the same... they want to be touched and kissed and express their feelings physically as well.
guys just show their... let's call it affection... more direct and less tender and soft than a girl would do.

[Caprice]

I didn't say boys are bad, it's just something they can't help maybe. I don't blame them, boys are not the same and so are girls. Some girls can sleep with their boyfriends because they love them or just because they want them. I just am not that kind of girls; and believe me Nemesis, I knew many kinds of guys, loving and respectful ones, and also loving and demonstrative ones. The good thing is a girl doesn't do anything she doesn't want to do. That is why I said I don't blame the guys. That is a shared responsibility, a shared choice if I can say.

One more thing: We really can "want" a guy and indulge in some weakness sometimes maybe, but that's a matter of principle and value. I have girl friends who do not share my values and I'm OK with that. But I'd rather wait till our love ends up in marriage than jump in his bed just in the name of "love".

[Nemesis]

I experienced that there are girls much more worse than a guy could ever be.
while a man is more direct in his actions, some girls are more subtile, doing everything to get a guy, acting without tact or decency and doing as if they would be untouchable while they flirt around offensively.
chat-up line is not better than touching and kissing someone and decency is done with words as well.

[Caprice]

A man never does anything he doesn't want to do. Some girls do not need any effort to get a guy. That is not a purpose in itself. They can get his heart and even more than that, without even having to try to get his attention. Feelings just come along as anything else (even without touching and kissing and flirting "offensively"). Some girls can get a man's heart without having to get him into bed first.

[Nemesis]

I m talking about lacking decency and womanly tact, not about feelings.
I m talking about girls who don't respect another girls feelings for they want a man for themselves.
and who is talking about sexual aspects? I m not, so the sentence about luring a guy into bed is meaningless right now.
chat-up line is flirting and flirting is some kind of play, some break the limits and start lacking decency.
that's what I said.